Why You Should Wait 24 Hours Before Your Next Decision
Like you, I've had days when I wished there were 25 or 26 hours in a day. You just can't seem to get it all done. Fortunately, there's always someone you know there to remind you that those extra few hours would just be filled up with something else.
True and true.
24 hours makes sense from a length of day standpoint. It also helps when you have to make a decision. Stepping away when you're hot under the collar is advice that will never go out of style.
What's the value of pausing when you have to make a big decision?
1. You calm down. If your decision is somewhat heated or you're feeling tense, it's always good to step back and calm down. Few good decisions get made out of anger.
2. Your thoughts get more clear. Time creates wisdom and if you can wait 24 hours, your own thoughts will get more clear. Yesterday Cary and I were talking about our kids and their future. Today we woke up with a better perspective on things and have clarity about how best to proceed. 24 hours will provide that for you.
3. You're more likely to make the right decision. Unless you are facing an emergency and have to act quickly, the 24 hour rule will always available to you.
4. You have the opportunity to talk with wise people. When you are facing a big decision, take the time to seek advice from someone you trust.
The next time you face a big decision, take 24 hours to let things settle and step back. I'm guessing you'll be glad you did.
Question: when was the last time that you faced a big decision and took the time to wait before taking action?
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